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Are you in immediate danger?   Back To Top
If you have an immediate crisis and feel you are in imminent danger...
Call 911
If you believe you may be in danger or if you have questions about domestic violence and abuse call Sojourner’s Crisis Line at  952-933-7422An advocate is on duty to answer your questions or provide information about safety planning, community resources and referrals, or other information about options for emergency shelter.

 
About Domestic Violence Back To Top
Domestic Violence is a crime. It is a pattern of abusive behavior intended to exert power and control over another person, usually a spouse or intimate partner. Abusive behaviors may include: physical, verbal, mental, or sexual abuse, hurting pets or destroying property, financial control, and other behaviors directed towards intimidating and controlling an intimate partner or family member.
If you need help, or need to know how to help a friend who is dealing with domestic violence,
call us at 952-933-7422.

 
Are You Abused? 952-933-7422 Back To Top
If you answer yes to any of the questions below, you are likely in an abusive relationship.
Help is available. Call 952-933-7422 for assistance.
  Do you feel like you are walking on eggshells to keep things calm?
  Do you feel like a prisoner in your own home?
  Does he/she call you names or ridicule you?
  Does he/she call to threaten or harass you?
  Does he/she shove, slap, kick or punch you?
  Does he/she abuse or threaten your children?
  Does he/she prevent you from talking to or seeing family or friends?
  Does he/she destroy your personal belongings?
  Do you feel spied upon or stalked?
  Does he/she constantly monitor you?
  Do you feel forced to have sex when you don’t want to?
  Does he/she listen to your phone calls or keep you from using the phone?
  Does he/she accuse you of lying or having affairs?
  Does he/she obsessively control family income?
  Does he/she prevent you from getting or keeping a job?

   
 
Frequently Asked Questions Back To Top
No one deserves to be hurt. You are not alone. There is help.
What kind of planning do I need to do to increase my safety?
Call Sojourner’s Crisis Line at 952-933-7422 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 and discuss your safety with a trained advocate. They will ask questions to assess the level of danger and help you determine action steps to increase personal safety for yourself and/or others in your care. See Elements of Self Care and Safety Planning
 What do I need to do to come to the shelter?
You can call Sojourner’s crisis line and talk with a trained staff who will assess your safety needs. If it is determined that you need the services of the shelter, the staff will inform you about the next steps to take. If there is no available bed space at Sojourner’s shelter, the staff will help you find another setting. See resource Day One.
What should I bring with me to shelter? 
Personal safety is a priority. If you have time, you can pack and bring clothes or small personal items with you however it is not necessary to bring anything. Through the generosity of so many, Sojourner is able to provide shelter residents with clothing, personal toiletries and food.
What are the benefits of coming to the shelter? 
Sojourner’s shelter provides emergency housing for single women and women and their children who are homeless as a result of violence and abuse. The Shelter is a secure and confidential setting. It is staffed by trained advocates and offers a variety of services to assist the transition and healing process.
What will it cost for me to reside at the shelter? 
Sojourner is a non-profit organization. All services provided by Sojourner to our clients are free of charge.
What type of environment should I expect at the shelter?
Sojourner provides a home-like atmosphere in a communal setting. Families have access to kitchen facilities, TV, phone, laundry and other daily living resources. While women reside in the shelter, trained advocates will help them identify personal objectives and will also provide needed information and support.
Will I have my own room?  Will my children be in the same room with me?
Sojourner attempts to provide clients with privacy as space allows however residents may end up sharing a bedroom. Children room with their parent.
Will services continue when I leave the shelter?
Residents can opt to continue to receive transition support. The type of support will be  determined on an individual basis and may include individual therapy and/or group support.
Is transportation help available?
Sojourner is close to bus routes and will assist as possible with transportation to court dates, medical appointments, and other domestic violence related appointments.
Are there services I can receive if I do not reside at the shelter?
Yes. The Community Advocacy Program at Sojourner provides legal advocacy and other supportive services for victims of domestic violence living in the west suburban communities of Hennepin County. Click on the "Services" link.

 
Elements of Self-Care and Safety Planning Back To Top
Teach your children to dial 911
Develop a code word that would signal to family or friends that you are unsafe
Identify a safe place to go if you should need it
Practice leaving the house quickly
Teach your children how to leave the house quickly and where to go
Store money, important documents and keys in a place with someone you trust
Call 952-933-7422 and ask about safety planning.
   If you are in danger of assault:
   
Call 911
If possible, get out of the house
Do not run or hide in a room or space that has only one exit
Do not run into a room such as a kitchen that has potential weapons
Try to get to a neighbor’s house or public place

 
Additional Resources Back To Top
Day One Services  - Call 1-866-223-1111 to receive immediate assistance and locate an appropriate, safe place to stay.
MinCAVA - Providing information and resources on domestic violence and abuse. www.mincava.umn.edu  
Minnesota Coalition of Battered Women  651- 646-6177
National Domestic Abuse Hotline  1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)
First Call For Help
   
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Nobody deserves to be abused.
To speak to someone confidentially, call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 952-933-7422